Many-to-Many object mapping questions

Instance may be a good term, but what I am really talking about is similar to your example where Customers have orders.  Orders are always shown in grids, not in loose controls. 

A hard example may illustrate it better.  On a display form, I show one policy.  This policy has 2 Insureds.  In relation to Policy via PolicyInsured, one of these is a Primary insured (in the case of this policy), and the other is a secondary.  I have 2 frames that have identical loose controls.  I want to populate the first frame's controls with the Primary insured's data. 

All of the ideablade examples would put the Insureds in a grid.  There would be a direct correlation with datarows and grid rows.

I did review the tutorials, and could not find exactly what I am looking for.  I want to map collection class members to controls *other than a grid*. 

When there is more than one member of the class, I want to show specific members in non-grid controls based on a value attached to the member (Primary/Secondary). 

I did figure out a way to do it in code; I had hoped that there would be a way to use the controlBindingManager to do it.  But it doesn't appear to me to be possible.  So I create a bindingSource for each member I want to display and then use AddBinding.  It works, and that is what matters. 
Thanks

Thanks!  It works, just as you describe. 

Another question - The specs call for the insureds to be displayed in non-grid controls, i.e., a frame with text boxes for Primary and another for Secondary.  Can you explain how I can bind the class members to controls vs a grid? I know I can get there by hand using generics/Find but that appears to me to defeat the purpose of having databinding.  I am attempting to use the Databindings.Add() but not having much success.

I apologize for asking such elementary questions.  I have dug through all the IdeaBlade documentation and forums, and haven't seen a clear example of anything but a grid.  Maybe there aren't many real world apps that use anything but a grid(?)

Thanks again.

I have a MtM relationship that has a field in the join table that needs to carry through to the attached collection.  I used the optimized query method to populate the data class for the second table, but I don't quickly see a way to obtain the value of the field in the intermediate table.

First table (Policy) has PolicyID etc
Second table (Insured) has InsuredID etc
join table (PolicyInsured) has PolicyID,InsuredID, and InsuredTypeCode.

I need the Insured members to have an InsuredTypeCode to carry through from the join table.

Many policies have many insureds.  An insured may be a primary in one policy, but secondary in another.

Thank you for any help!